Happy Halloween! Yesterday's topic chat on The SafeworD/s Club was about "Fear and Excitement", and we talked about the most "scary exciting" things we'd experienced in a scene. I thought it was interesting to see that the general consensus among the subs was "something my Dom threatened to do to me on purpose" while the other Dom … Continue reading The Scares
Beth and I were in the car today, and for us that's as good a time as any for checking in and seeing how our dynamic is working. Our dynamic continues to defy description, but I feel like I'm getting close with the phrase "very low protocol, but the D/s runs clear down to our … Continue reading Checking In
Okay, so... sometimes we're afraid to talk about something. Could... um. Could we maybe talk about that for a minute? I had a chat tonight with a new sub who was having a hard time talking with her Dom about updating their dynamic. They were both very new and I got the impression that both … Continue reading How To Talk About It (When You’re Afraid To Talk About It)
I'm getting pretty sick and tired of being sick and tired. It really swings our dynamic way out to the side. It doesn't throw it off, it just puts us on a weird schedule and changes the demands and tradeoffs of the power dynamic. We've embraced it; one of the meanings of the word dynamic … Continue reading Sick and Tired (And Horny)
"The more things change, the more they are the same." -- Alphonse Karr Beth and I have been through a lot this year. The worst part of the whole year obviously was her going through the chemotherapy alone while I served six months in jail for tax evasion, but the best part by far was when … Continue reading A Quick Recap
Ohhh, man. Hey, remember that time back in May when I said I was restarting my blog? And you believed me? Hah, fooled you pretty good, didn't I. Well, it's been almost a year since my last real post, and before this gets a year of being dead I guess I should really get behind … Continue reading Is This Thing Still On?